Ok so today I want to talk about friendships. Now, I want to talk about this because I feel like the way people view thier 'friends' is fucked up. Beyond fucked up. There are so many people that will tell you I'm a bitch or a horrible friend because I didn't bull shit with them. I told them when they were being stupid, and if I wanted to say something about them to others, I would tell them first. That's what friends do.
First off, since when is it okay to talk about your 'friends?' If you dislike someone enough that you want to talk shit about them to everyone, then don't be their fucking friend! Simple as that. Everyone complains about people being 'two-faced bitched,' but you probably do the exact same thing that they're fucking doing. You have a problem with someone, you need to talk to them about it, not everyone else.
Secondly, if someone is your true friend, when they ask for advice or are doing something stupid, tell them the fucking truth! Don't stand by and let them make stupid decisions because that's what they want to do or what they want to fucking hear. If you care about them, you need to tell them what they NEED to hear, because that is what's best for them!
If someone is doing something hurtful to themselves or others around them, but wants you to keep it a secret, don't keep it a fucking secret! You need to tell someone so they can get help. I cannot tell you how grateful I am that my friend told my parents when I was hurting myself. It is because of her that I am here today. Thanks, for being a good friend. You are fucking awesome.
Do unto others as you would like done unto you. And don't take that sentence as a sexual inuendo. Perverts.
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